This post was supposed to have come up a few days before Christmas, but i believe someone interrupted me online while i was in the middle of doing this. As such, im doing it now even though Christmas is over. Not that this post has much to do with it any way.
Everyone seems to be rather cheery this Christmas season and for good reason because its the happiest and most festive time of the year. But ironically, for the past 2 Christmases, i’ve had to spend it away from the one i love the most. Its just….circumstances and no one can be blamed for it. But i do wish that all this might end soon, and that i will see my girl once again. Who knows, in a few Christmases, i might just get to spend it with her.
I think as the year ends, i think we begin thinking more of about the year that has flashed by us in such a proggressive fashion and once its New year’s, we forget all of that and we start thinking about what we’d like to do in the coming year. Any how, 2008 has been pretty amazing for me. For me and alot of my peers, 2008 has meant a new school, new friends, new perspectives, and maybe a new life. I’ve been happy in school and for the first time in my life, the american idol that i supported actually won the competition of the same name. Haha. I think the whole point of life is to experience all that you can and yet stay rooted enough to a group of friends that ensures your life doesnt fly off like a loose kite. Freedom is good, but i think we all need an anchor in our lives to keep everything in check. Things like Sunday lunches with the family, or Monday movie marathons, or whatever you and your family do. All these things serve as a mirror to who you really are, and it reminds you who you are every week after an entire week of being someone you may not be in school, at work, or in society. In the end, your family and friends are really the mirror on your wall, showing you who you have really become.
One thing i admit to not having done enough this year is making friends. I simply don’t see the need to make so many new friends sometimes. I know that in my course of study, acquaintances are the best things to have, but i’m not the sort of person that enjoys being in the student union, getting to know everyone, waving to every alternating person you walk past on the way to one class because you know too many people and you cant ignore their prescence. Its funny because i wonder how these people deal with themselves on a rough day. Those days that you just wish to have some quiet time to think and you dont wish to smile, and you have to walk past all these people you know, all these people whom you were close enough to share a friendly salutation yet not close enough for you to share your thoughts with. I think it must feel absolutely self-explosive. In the end, its still the old friends you fall back on. The people whom you know so well that you hate what they do sometimes, and yet you’d be willing to die for any day.
Right now, i’m feeling ill and pretty much sad because my baby isnt with me, and i think year ends are just sad. Maybe its because when you have a good year, you tend to remember the events of that year and you feel an unwillingness to let it fade away into the past as a new year approaches. Whereas when you have a bad year, you’d be dying to leave it behind and move on. But of course, some people just seem to have good years all the time, while some people’s lives are just so turbulent and they never seem to have good years. Well, in any case, this is the sad time of the year for me, where Underoath and Saosin give way to Augustana and Damien Rice. I will leave this post with couple of thanks.
- Shearen – Thank you for being the love of my life and for everything I am, I owe to you. I love you.
- Jo – Despite being halfway around the world, thank you for making me smile every time i think of you.
- Nini – Thanks for being such a lovely girl. I hope one of my daughters may have a heart like yours.
- Nicholas – Good luck at perfecting your already good life and thanks for being a friend.
- Amirul – Coolest dude i know. Take care of Lorry. Thanks for the good times.
- Sophia – Thanks for making classes that little bit less dreadful. You’ve been wonderful to me.
- Jeeva – Priorities my friend, you have great character, POL-ITE gogo!
- Sherrie – Thanks for just popping up in my life. Be the princess you say you’ll be. Haha.
- Jerry – You’re a life saver and the ass i love to be in school with. Thanks.
- Shanti – For the time we spend together, its amazing we’re still that close. Thanks for being everything you are.
- Nikki – You’re brilliant and you have great things going for you. Me and Shan will always be here.